so glad that he got rid of me all those years ago, no matter how hard i tried to hold on through the abuse, cheating, court, and even jail...however....he's still fucking up my life.
i've had these moles that i've wanted to get looked at for quite some time because my underwear irritates them and let's be honest, i think they're ugly. my husband doesn't care.... i had the first few when i met him... but i do. this year, at my yearly, my gynocologist suggested i get them checked out. because they aren't moles. they are warts. WARTS? seriously?! they look like moles. how the hell...? and all the info she proceeded to tell me was confirmed today by the dermatalogist i saw who she recommended. i have one of the strains of HPV. Approximately 75% of sexually active adults carry the virus, however very few ever have warts (go freaking figure!). HPV is most well known for causing cervical cancer. i've had 14 straight regular pap smears - no cancer. and the strains that cause cancer are NOT the strains that have warts. so i "lucked out," although i got the ugly strain.
so how do you tell your (overprotective, bipolar) husband that you have an STI from your ex? thank God it was clarified to me that it's a sexually transmitted INFECTION, not disease, because i was really having trouble swallowing the idea that I, aubrey, who has only ever slept with THREE people in my entire life, one being my high school boyfriend...in which we were each others' FIRSTS...could possibly have an STD! it's still super fucking with me. but it's frustrating....because....unlike an STD, you can't screen for them. my ex actually had STD testing done right before i got with him...but it's not an STD so there's no way he would have known....although he also could have gotten the virus from one of the....6....7....8....? girls he cheated on me with...so it's not like i could have even known i had the virus, especially because they look like moles!!
but yet again....i ask the question...how do you tell your husband that you just found out you have an STI from your ex which means he likely carries the virus now too? ugh. i can't believe trent's bullshit from so many years ago is still messing with my life.
anyway, the dermatalogist froze 7 of them today...they're supposed to fall off after 2 or 3 treatments, but may come back...there's no guarantee. although i just realized he missed 2 of them...i have a total of 9. gross. but holy hell, that was one of the most painful things i have ever endured! granted, it's already a sensitive area, but a blast of liquid nitrogen to that area....wow. not fun at all. and i have another appointment in 3 weeks. sigh.
oh, i failed to mention that my copay for specialists is SIXTY dollars. oh how angry i want to be...but instead, i just feel sad. depressed. and anxious.